So you’re dating, and things are going great. You think this might be the one, but how do you know for sure? Everyone has heard of Soulmates, but what does that actually mean? And how do you find yours? Here are a few tips to help you figure out if you’ve found The One.
You’re not afraid to fall anymore.
Many people are afraid to fall in love. Fearful of the vulnerability, the judgment, the rejection. But you’ve found someone who makes all those fears go away. You could be completely honest with them about anything.
Everyone has been scared to fall in love. They’ve been hurt before, and they don’t want to go through that pain again, so they put up a wall to protect themselves from getting hurt. But the truth is – we’re all going to get hurt at one point or another. The best thing about falling in love is – if you do it right – you only get hurt once.
You’re not afraid to fall anymore because you now know that no matter how much it hurts – even if you break – your soulmate will be there to pick up the pieces and help you put yourself back together.
When you find your soulmate, you’ll feel that love is something that’s not only worth getting hurt over but also something that heals your heart when it does get broken. They are by your side to pick you up and help mend all those pieces back together again. It might take time to recover.
To find your soulmate, you have to be open to love and ready for a change in your life. You can’t be afraid of anything or anyone – including yourself. If you’ve found the one, then they’ll help you grow into a better version of yourself and simultaneously lift you up higher than you’ve ever been before. You’re not afraid to be happy.
You don’t want anyone else but this person.
Your soulmate is someone you can’t imagine your life without and who you would never want to be without. If they were gone, then something in life just wouldn’t be right. Your love for them is very different from the love you have for anyone else.
Your soulmate is the only person who can complete your life and make it better than you ever thought it could be. And if they’re gone, then everything just seems a little bit less whole.
Your soulmate is the only person who can make you feel truly happy to have been born into this world. When you begin to think about the meaning of life and all your dreams, they’re the only person who should be there through it all.
When you really fall for someone, there’s no one else who comes to mind. They’re the only person who fits perfectly with you and completes you in every way. No one else even comes close, and you’re sure of that.
You can’t picture your life without them.
At one point, the thought of spending forever with someone sounded like a prison sentence. Now you can’t imagine yourself apart from them. You’ve found someone to grow old with, and you’re excited about it.
You know that you were lucky enough to find your soulmate, and now you can’t wait to live the rest of your life with them. You want to experience everything life has to offer and reflect on it all with them. You can’t wait to spend every day of the rest of your life with them.
You want to share everything with them. You want to laugh, cry, sing, dance, travel…you want your hearts to beat as one. You can’t imagine living your life without them.
You’re excited to find out what the future holds for you both. You can’t imagine your life without them now, and that’s how you know it’s meant to be.
You don’t need to be afraid of the future.
When you’re with your soulmate, you don’t have to worry about what could happen. You can just enjoy the moment because everything will work out the way it’s supposed to.
Your soulmate is someone you can’t imagine your future without. They’re the missing piece that was always meant to be. When you’re with them, they make everything look brighter and happier. They’re all you need for a happy future.
When you find your soulmate, you can’t think of any other possible option for the future. The only thing you want is to be with them and grow old with them. You want to know that no matter where you end up – they’ll be there, too.
You know that they will catch you.
If you’re with your soulmate, then they’ll be the only person who can keep up with you. They’ll be that one person who runs with you, laughs with you, and live life right alongside you.
You know that your soulmate will love you unconditionally – no matter what. They’ll never leave you hanging; they’ll always be there to catch you when you fall.
You don’t have to pretend around them; you can just be yourself. They accept everything about you – the good and the bad – and love you for it all.
They bring out the best in you. You feel inspired by one another, want to succeed together… Your soulmate is someone you can always rely on, no matter what happens. They’re the ones who will help you up when you fall and stay by your side no matter how hard everything gets.
They’re the most amazing person you’ve ever met. They don’t just accept who you are; they embrace it and love you for it. And that makes you want to be a better person than you ever were before so that they’ll love you even more.
You feel a sense of calm and peace when you’re around them.
You won’t be nervous or regretful about being with them. You’ll know that they’re the ones you’ve been looking for and that your relationship was always meant to be.
Your soulmate is someone who’ll never give up on you, no matter how difficult things get between the two of
When you’re with your soulmate, everything just feels right. Being with them is easy and natural, not full of stress or worry. You feel at ease when you’re with them like everything’s falling into place.
They love you for all that you are.
You know that you’d do anything for your soulmate because they love you so completely and unconditionally. They don’t want to change you – they want to be the person who helps you become better, happier, and stronger. They love everything about you, and they’ll never leave your side.
Your soulmate sees all the amazing qualities you possess and loves you for them. You feel comfortable enough to let them in – no matter how dark or hurtful your past has been. They look at you and all your flaws and choose to love you anyway.
You can’t imagine a life where they don’t love you. When your soulmate loves you, it’s like nothing can get you down. You know they don’t care about the little things and that you’re in it for the long haul.
They inspire you.
The most amazing things happen to you when you’re with your soulmate. You feel inspired, loved, and ready to be a better version of yourself. You know that you deserve all the happiness in the world, and so does your soulmate.
Because you two understand each other, you can easily relate in ways that others can’t. You want to talk, laugh, learn, and grow with them. They inspire you to be better than you were before.
You’re excited to see what happens next with them. You can’t wait to work towards something better and more beautiful together.
You know that your future is bright with them in it.
Your soulmate is the one person who’ll always be there to support you and comfort you. They’ll be the voice of reason when you’re in a panic and the one person to calm your fears when everything feels like it’s caving in.
They’ll be your biggest cheerleader on the days when you have nothing left to give, and they’ll be there on the days you feel unstoppable. They’ll be your ride or die, through the good times and the bad.
You know that your soulmate is your soulmate for a reason. And no matter how hard things get, you’re ready to tackle anything as long as they’re there by your side. You’re ready to live the rest of your life with them by your side.
You know it’s meant to be.
When you find the one, you’ll know. You won’t need a reason or excuse – it’s not like you’ll meet them and say to yourself, “Yup, this is my soulmate right here.”
Your souls will recognize each other immediately. You’ll feel a connection that’s stronger than anything you’ve ever felt before. Your soulmate will be the one person who understands you better than anyone else.
You’ll never have to question whether or not you’re meant to be together. You’ll know it in your soul, and you’ll both feel it in your hearts. You’ll never want to be apart from them, and everything will just fall into place.
You won’t have to force yourself to be with them. You won’t feel like you have to work at it or put in the effort. It’ll just be effortless, and you won’t have to wonder if it’s the real thing or not.
Conclusion.
So, how do you know when you’ve found your soulmate? The answer is simpler than you might think. When you meet someone and feel an immediate sense of ease and comfort around them, that’s a good sign. You don’t have to worry about impressing them or trying to be something you’re not; they like you for who you are. They make you feel happy and complete just by being in their company. If this sounds like your current relationship (or the one you hope to find), Congratulations! You’ve found your soulmate.
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Brenda Tillman is a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Practitioner, a dedicated mom blogger, and a life enthusiast. She also has completed courses on Parenting Skills, Learning, and Education. She is married and is the proud mother of a boy and two girls. She loves being with her family and pets. She has been blogging for over five years now and enjoys sharing her thoughts on parenting, relationships, health & fitness as well as other topics that come up in life.
