Do you feel like your life is going by too fast and you’re not living up to your potential? If yes, don’t worry! It happens to the best of us. As we get older, it gets harder and harder to make changes in our lives.
That’s why it’s important that we take advantage of these precious years before we turn 30 and do some things that will help us live a more fulfilling life.
Travel Solo.
This is a great way to learn more about yourself and grow as a person. When you travel solo, you are completely responsible for yourself. This means that you have to figure out things like where to stay, what to eat, and how to get around.
This can be a daunting task, but it’s also incredibly rewarding. You learn so much about different cultures and how to navigate different situations. It also teaches you how to be independent and rely on yourself.
One thing to keep in mind when traveling solo is that it can be lonely at times.
Make sure you have some activities planned or people to meet up with so you don’t end up bored.
It doesn’t matter where you go or what kind of trip you decide to take, just make sure it’s something that will refresh your soul and give you the strength to work towards your other goals.
If traveling solo scares you, don’t worry! There will be plenty of people around who are also traveling alone. All over the world, there are groups dedicated to helping travelers find friends fast so they won’t feel lonely. Just do some research on Meetup or Couchsurfing before leaving home and see if there are any groups near your destination!
Create a Bucket List.
This is probably the most popular thing to do before you turn 30. A bucket list is a list of things you want to do before you die. It can be anything from skydiving to traveling to a different country.
It’s important to have goals in life as they give us something to strive for. They can be anything from personal goals, such as losing weight or learning how to cook, to professional goals, such as getting promoted at work.
The important thing is that it’s something that excites you and makes you feel alive.
What are some goals that inspire you? Where would like to visit? Who would you like to meet? Make sure your list is achievable within the next 10 years or so. You might be surprised at how much it helps in achieving them when they are written down on paper.
Learn Another Language.
This is a great goal to have in your 20s as the earlier you start, the easier it will be. Not only is learning a new language a great way to challenge yourself, but it can also help you in your career.
Bilingual people are often seen as more desirable employees as they can communicate with different people from all over the world.
It’s not easy to learn a new language, but with enough practice and dedication, you can do it! There are plenty of resources out there to help you get started, such as Duolingo or Rosetta Stone.
Move Somewhere Else.
If you’re feeling stuck in a small town, it might be time to make big changes and move somewhere else. Getting out of your comfort zone can be tough, but there are plenty of benefits to finding somewhere new to live.
You always hear people talking about how great an experience they had moving to another country. It opens up whole new worlds that you never knew existed!
Of course, not everyone is brave enough to pack their bags and leave everything behind for something completely unknown. If that sounds like you, that’s okay too! There are other options besides uprooting yourself completely.
For example, if you have the means or the courage, consider taking a few months off after college so you can work or volunteer somewhere new. You might not be brave enough to move away forever, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take advantage of this time in your life to see the world!
Make Peace With any Unresolved Issues.
This is something that’s easy to put off until later, but can really help you enjoy your 30s. Everyone has parents, siblings, friends, significant others, etc., who they haven’t communicated with in a while.
Maybe you had a falling out with someone close to you or maybe you just need closure from past relationships that didn’t work out. Whatever the case may be for you, it’s important to let go of any negative emotions before moving on with your life.
This might feel scary at first since it means talking about things that have happened in the past and being vulnerable with other people. You might not know what will happen after talking about everything so honestly. But remember, the only way to heal is by speaking your truth!
By doing this, you’re releasing all of that emotional baggage and freeing yourself from anything that’s holding you back. Plus, it could even lead to some positive relationships in your life or help mend things with someone that you care about!
Spend Time with Someone who is Older than You.
Getting older is a fact of life, but it’s easier to forget about that when you’re still in your 20s. It’s good to get used to the idea early so you know how best to prepare for it.
Just like taking care of your parents and grandparents, spending time with someone who is much older than you can teach you a lot. Don’t rush through these years! Instead, be present in this moment because there will come a time when these people won’t be around anymore…
That doesn’t mean you have to spend all your free time with an old person though! But make sure that you don’t take advantage of having them around either!
Plan for Retirement.
Even if it seems far off right now, it will soon become closer than ever with every year that passes by until then… It’s always better safe than sorry!
Since you’re saving for your future, it might be a good time to consider investing in real estate. There are plenty of opportunities out there and the earlier you start, the more money you can make. It takes some work and research to get everything started, but isn’t that worth it in the long run? After all, if you want something done properly, do it yourself!
By having a plan, you can start saving for your retirement today so you won’t have to rely on others after you stop working.
Being responsible with your money is always important, but it’s even more so when it comes to your future. Now is the time to get serious about how much money you’re making and where it goes every month; otherwise, you’ll end up regretting it later!
Spend Time with Someone who is Older than You.
Getting older is a fact of life, but it’s easier to forget about that when you’re still in your 20s. It’s good to get used to the idea early so you know how best to prepare for it.
Just like taking care of your parents and grandparents, spending time with someone who is much older than you can teach you a lot. Don’t rush through these years! Instead, be present in this moment because there will come a time when these people won’t be around anymore…
That doesn’t mean you have to spend all your free time with an old person though! But make sure that you don’t take advantage of having them around either!
Embrace Change.
“The only thing that is constant is change.” – Heraclitus
As cliché as it may sound, this quote is absolutely true. You can’t avoid change and you shouldn’t try to since it’s a natural part of life.
Change can be scary, but it can also be exciting! Embrace the new opportunities that come your way, no matter how daunting they may seem at first.
When you’re close to your 30s, you’ll start to see more and more changes in your personal and professional life. Don’t be afraid of them! Welcome them with open arms and see how they can help you grow as a person.
Write a Letter to Your Future Self and Put it in a Time Capsule.
If you’re in the habit of journaling already, then this will be a fun and easy task! You can write down all your hopes and dreams for the future in an effort to motivate yourself in the present.
Or alternatively, you could tell yourself everything you are doing now that you need to remember when you are 30.
However, you choose to do it, make sure that you write down your thoughts and feelings about where you are now. Keeping track of how much you’ve changed can be beneficial if you ever need a reminder about how far you’ve come in life!
Take up a Sport and Make it Part of Your Routine.
It’s important to stay fit and healthy when you are close to your 30s since this is most likely the decade where you’ll settle into a more “adult” lifestyle. Cut down on the partying, reduce stress, eat healthier (but don’t forget that glass of wine or cocktail sometimes), etc. There are plenty of ways to do it! Plus, it will have an impact on your overall mood too.
Embrace all these changes by keeping yourself active whenever possible so you can enjoy life while you’re still young!
By exercising on a regular basis, you’ll feel stronger and better about yourself which can contribute to your self-confidence growing too! It’s always good to have strong legs just in case some ‘runner’s high
When you’re in your 30s, it’s easy to feel like you’re too old for sports. So, try to do them now! (however, this is absolutely not the case! In fact, exercising is more important than ever when you are in your 30s because it helps reduce stress and anxiety.)
There are tons of sports out there, so it’s easy to find something that you like.
Conclusion.
So, now that you know a few things to keep in mind before you enter your 30s, get out there and make the most of it! These years are definitely going to be memorable ones, so go out and enjoy them!
Be open to change, stay active, and enjoy your free time while you still can! And most importantly, don’t forget to have some fun along the way!
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