There’s no doubt that trying to find someone new to date can be challenging, but what if you could just turn to your best friend for comfort and companionship? Dating your best friend may seem like a scary prospect, but there are plenty of reasons why it can be a great idea. Here are ten reasons why you should consider giving it a try!
You already know each other well and have a strong bond.
When you date your best friend, you already know the other person pretty well. You won’t have to waste time getting to know them because you’re already in a friendship together!
This can make everything much easier when it comes to dates since both of you will be comfortable with each other in different settings. You’ll also have an easier time communicating.
You probably feel comfortable around your best friend and can be yourself without being judged.
You’re already used to spending time together, so it won’t even seem weird when you start dating! You’ll just slip into how things were before the relationship changed.
There’s no need for awkward meet-the-parents gatherings or having to explain your past relationships to each other.
You’ll always have someone who understands precisely what you’re going through. Your best friend knows how you think and will support you in different ways than anyone else can. You won’t need to explain every detail of your life to the other person because they already know.
There’s no need to waste time getting to know one another, which means that there is a greater chance of success.
You won’t have to worry about looking good around them all the time.
You know that your best friend will still love you even if you run out the door in your sweats and always have someone to call when you want to watch Netflix and eat ice cream.
Relax and be yourself! You won’t have to waste time trying to impress your best friend, so you’ll have more time to focus on what’s important.
You already get along well together, which means that there are fewer personality clashes. The two of you can enjoy spending time together without worrying about all the things that usually cause fights in new relationships.
You already know each other’s good qualities.
You’ve probably been friends for a while, so you know what you bring to the table. This can save both of you from going on dates with people with who you aren’t a good match.
You know all of your best friend’s flaws, and they know yours as well. This can help you be more accepting of each other’s opinions and help you work out any issues that arise.
You’re comfortable with each other and know how to have a good time together. As friends, you’ve probably already experienced a lot of things together and know what styles each other likes. You can use this knowledge to help each other look and feel great during dates.
You already know how to have a good time with your best friend.
This means that you’ll easily be able to make your significant other feel comfortable around you.
You know what makes each other tick, so it’s unlikely that you’ll be surprised by anything your best friend does, and you probably won’t get mad if he leaves his dirty socks on the coffee table or if she forgets to take the trash out!
You want to find someone different from you but similar at the same time. Instead of finding someone utterly different from you, dating your best friend can help you find a complementary match. You’ll be able to use each other as a sounding board for your ideas, and you’ll have the same group of friends to enjoy spending time with.
You can go back to being friends if things don’t work out.
If you find that dating your best friend isn’t for you, you can always go back to being friends. This makes it easier if things don’t work out and means that the chances of both of you getting hurt are slim to none!
It’s always nice to have the option of going back to being just friends if you don’t think that it would work out. You can go back to hanging out with each other and doing fun things as friends if it doesn’t work out, so there’s no harm in trying.
If you realize that dating your best friend isn’t for you, no worries! You’re already close and can end the relationship on good terms. There’s no need for awkward breakups or bad blood between you two.
You share common interests and values.
You have the same sense of humor, go to the same places, and enjoy doing all of the same things. You have probably already discussed what you want from life and are entirely on the same page.
Your best friend probably knows all of your dreams and aspirations, which means they are a good person to go to for advice. Your future partner will be someone who shares your dreams, so it makes sense that your best friend does too!
If you have the same sense of humor, it can be easier to mesh your lives together. You’ll already know all of the inside jokes and will be able to bond over fun experiences.
You can see whether or not you’re sexually compatible before actually dating, which ups your chances of success in the relationship!
You’re already best friends and know all about each other’s personalities and lifestyles. You probably already have tons of inside jokes and commonalities!
Dating your best friend can be a pretty great idea as long as you’re both on the same page. It’s a good idea to think about how your mutual friends will react before you start throwing around the “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” titles to avoid any awkward encounters!
You’re loyal to each other and would never cheat on or hurt one another.
When you’re hanging out with your best friend, you know that they won’t be interested in anyone else!
If you know that your best friend won’t ever do anything to hurt you, then it’s a lot easier to get more comfortable with them. You two know each other so well that there’s nothing “new” to explore. This can make it easier to progress from a friendship into a relationship.
When you’re already friends, it’s easier to trust each other. You already know that your best friend is a good person, and you probably don’t have any concerns about them going behind your back in a relationship.
Dating your best friend can make life easier for you in some ways, but it doesn’t mean that things will be perfect. There are certainly some cons to consider before you take the plunge!
You’ve got each other’s backs – no matter what.
If you know that your best friend would go through fire for you, it makes sense to date them.
When you’re dating someone who is more like family than a partner, it can make things easier. You never have to worry about whether or not your best friend will be there for you because you know that they will be!
When you date your best friend, you’ll always have someone by your side. You’ll know that they love and support you no matter what, and they’ll be able to comfort you if things don’t go as planned.
You can vent to your best friend about your relationship issues without worrying about judgment. You know that your best friend will be there for you no matter what, which means you’ll have someone to confide in and work through problems with.
There are no games.
Dating your best friend can be much less stressful because you already know each other, and there are no games.
If they like you, they show it; if not, they quickly let go of the friendship.
You can always trust your best friend to be on your team. There are no games, only open communication! You never have to worry about whether your best friend will be there for you because you know that they will always have your back.
Your relationship is easy and drama-free.
When you’re in a relationship with your best friend, it’s easy to trust that they won’t do anything to hurt or betray you. This makes it easy to feel comfortable and relaxed in your relationship.
You’ll probably never have to worry about having any problems. Your relationship is drama-free and easy, and you know that your best friend will be able to listen and support you through anything.
Loving your best friend can be a different experience from loving a romantic partner. You don’t have to compare the two types of love, but it’s essential to consider how your relationship will affect you and your best friend.
Conclusion.
Loving your best friend means that you love them differently than you would a romantic partner, but this does not mean there is one “better” type of love. Losing your best friend could be hard, but you would never want to lose them completely, even if things don’t work out!
When you love someone, and they love you back (in a way that doesn’t hurt them), it’s great to give your relationship a chance and see where it goes.
Don’t be scared to open yourself up and share your love with someone special!
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